Resolving Your Divorce Without Trial: The Role of Mediation in New Jersey
You want the divorce finished -- not a year of motions, discovery deadlines, and a trial date that keeps moving. For many New Jersey couples, there is a faster route to a Judgment of Divorce (JOD) than the courtroom. New Jersey courts actively encourage the use of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), including mediation, to help couples find fair and efficient solutions without the stress and expense of going to trial.
The Power of Mediation
Mediation is a confidential, non-adversarial process in which a neutral, professionally trained mediator helps both parties reach a mutually agreeable resolution. Judges often refer divorce cases to mediation--especially when custody and parenting time are at issue. The goal is to resolve key matters early and amicably, preserving family relationships and reducing conflict.
Mediation is particularly useful for:
- Custody and parenting schedules
- Division of assets and debts
- Modifications of existing court orders
Mediation Isn't About "Giving In"
It's important to understand that mediation is voluntary -- no one can be forced to accept a proposal. Its effectiveness depends on each party's willingness to compromise. That's why it's critical to have a knowledgeable attorney by your side: someone who can help you evaluate what's fair and when it's necessary to involve the court.